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Mark J Molinoff

Novelist and Writer of Faith Reflections

Author: Mark Molinoff

  • The Gift of Yoking: Learning Grace in Difficult Pairings

    The Gift of Yoking: Learning Grace in Difficult Pairings

    Life has a way of placing us alongside people we wouldn’t choose for ourselves—at work, in ministry, even in our families. These partnerships, often marked by friction or incompatibility, can feel like burdens more than blessings. But what if they’re actually invitations? What if these difficult pairings are divinely appointed lessons in humility, grace, and transformation? In Matthew 11:29, Jesus offers us a profound insight into the gift of yoking, one that reframes how we view the people we’re “stuck with” in life.

    Watchman Nee’s Devotional

    Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
    —Matthew 11:29

    Watchman Nee offers this commentary on the verse:
    “Sometimes God puts a careful person and a careless person together, or a strong person and a weak person together, or a healthy person and a sick person together, or a clever person and an ignorant person together, or a quick-tempered person and a slow-tempered person together, or a tidy person and a sloppy person together. So that one will be the yoke to the other, and vice versa. This gives them both the opportunity to learn the nature of Christ. And if you struggle against it, you will have no rest. But if you say to God, ‘I will take up the yoke You give me, I am willing to take my place, I am willing to obey,’ you will find rest and joy.”

    When the Yoke Feels Uneven

    As children, many of us experienced the discomfort of being paired with a classmate who worked differently than we did—someone who was louder, slower, less focused, or maybe too intense. The assignment became not just about the project, but about navigating the person. As adults, this doesn’t change. The team member who underdelivers, the boss who micromanages, the neighbor who sees the world through a completely different lens—all become part of our spiritual curriculum.

    Left to our own devices, we would likely choose teammates, spouses, and friends who align perfectly with our preferences. But God, in His wisdom, pairs us according to a higher purpose. The yoke is never arbitrary. It is tailored not just for what we need to accomplish but for who we are becoming. And this is the gift of yoking—that in bearing the weight together, we learn to reflect the meekness and humility of Christ.

    The Incompatible Workmates

    Consider Sarah, a driven, detail-oriented project manager who was assigned to work closely with Marcus, a creative visionary known for being disorganized and frequently late. Frustration came quickly. But over time, Sarah realized Marcus taught her how to be flexible and open to spontaneous inspiration. And Marcus, in turn, learned the value of structure and follow-through. What began as an irritation became a mutual formation. The yoke, once resented, became a blessing.

    This doesn’t mean every difficult relationship becomes easy. But it does mean that every pairing has redemptive potential. We are not called to fix the other person, but to learn of Christ in how we walk beside them.

    The Structured Husband and the Free-Spirited Wife

    Consider David and Marisol, a married couple who, by most measures, couldn’t be more different. David was an accountant—disciplined, punctual, financially conservative. He loved spreadsheets, schedules, and early bedtimes. Marisol was an artist—passionate, intuitive, emotionally expressive. She thrived in spontaneity and often made decisions based on inspiration rather than logic.

    In the early years of their marriage, these differences led to frequent clashes. David couldn’t understand why Marisol never stuck to the budget or why she’d start projects without finishing others. Marisol, on the other hand, felt stifled by David’s rigidity and need for control. They each felt unseen, misunderstood, and tempted to conclude that they’d married the wrong person.

    Leaning into the Uncomfortable

    But instead of letting those differences drive them apart, they chose to lean into the uncomfortable process of transformation—individually and together. Through prayer, counseling, and a growing faith, they began to see their spouse not as an obstacle, but as a mirror. David’s steadiness became a source of security for Marisol, and her creativity opened David’s world in ways he never expected. She learned to plan with more intention; he learned to live with more openness.

    It wasn’t a linear journey. There were hard conversations, emotional misfires, and the ache of having to yield when it felt unfair. But they began to trust that God had yoked them not for convenience, but for growth.

    Their marriage didn’t get easier—it got deeper. By choosing to honor each other, even when they didn’t understand each other, they tapped into a grace that made both of them better.

    The Gift of Yoking

    The gift of yoking is rarely wrapped in comfort. It usually shows up in the form of another person’s irritating habits, opposing temperament, or wildly different worldview. But when we resist the urge to emotionally react, and instead ask God what He’s forming in us, we begin to see our relationships as sacred assignments. The friction isn’t punishment—it’s refinement.

    Yielding to the Yoke

    When Jesus invites us to take His yoke, He is not offering escape from the weight of life. He is offering a shared burden—a way of carrying that brings rest to the soul. His meekness and lowliness are not just admirable traits; they are blueprints for how to endure the rub of incompatible personalities and values.

    We resist, and we grow restless. We surrender, and we find peace.
    This is the gift of yoking—not always comfortable, but always transformative. The question is not, “Why am I stuck with this person?” but rather, “What is Christ forming in me through this?”

    A Call to Action

    Who is your yoke today? A co-worker, a spouse, a parent, a child? Instead of bracing against the discomfort, try yielding. Ask the Lord, “What are You teaching me through this person? What part of Your nature can I learn right here?”

    Choose to see the pairing not as punishment, but as formation.

    Receive the gift of yoking.

    And you will, in time, find rest for your soul.

    About Raleigh Acupuncture

    At Raleigh Acupuncture Associates, we are deeply committed to providing the highest quality professional acupuncture while being rooted in strong Judeo-Christian values of love, faith, kindness, and truth. We guide our practice with compassionate care, where each patient is treated with respect and dignity, regardless of their background, faith, or beliefs. We welcome people from all walks of life and strive to create a warm, inclusive environment promoting healing and holistic wellness. Our dedication to delivering exceptional acupuncture is paired with a genuine love for helping others, making our clinic a place where faith and professional medical care come together for the well-being of every patient.

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    Focus Keyphrase: The Gift of Yoking
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  • Ask God for a Word

    Ask God for a Word

    When I face challenges in life, my first instinct is often to praise God in confidence that He will deliver me. Praise is powerful—it lifts my eyes and steadies my heart. But recently, I came across a line from Watchman Nee that made me pause: “Whenever something confronts you, you must ask Him to give you a word.” I realized that while I trust God’s goodness, I don’t always ask God for a word—a specific word from Scripture to anchor my faith and guide my prayers. What does it mean to do that? How do we receive such a word, and how can it help us break through seemingly immovable problems? This post explores those questions.

    Watchman Nee’s Commentary

    “So belief cometh of hearing, and hearing by the word of Christ.” – Romans 10:17

    Watchman Nee writes:

    “When you have problems with your home, school, business or personal needs, your prayers will be in vain if you do not believe God’s word. You have not, because you pray not. You pray and still have not, because you do not believe in God’s word (cf. James 4.2, 3). It is a waste of time to pray without believing in the word of God. In order to receive God’s grace, one thing which is so necessary is to lay hold of His word. You believe and God performs. Whenever something confronts you, you must ask Him to give you a word. And then with His word, you shall be able to break through any problem whatsoever. To have God’s word in such a manner is to possess the sword of the Spirit. Almost all the armor mentioned in Ephesians 6 is for defensive purposes; only the sword of the Holy Spirit, “which is the word of God,” is for offensive use. Having God’s word, you can overthrow every obstacle and solve all problems.”

    What Does It Mean to “Ask God for a Word”?

    The idea of actively asking God for a word goes beyond general faith and praise—it’s about seeking specific guidance, illumination, or a promise from Scripture that addresses your exact situation. It’s spiritual strategy, not just spiritual sentiment. And it can transform the way we engage with trials.

    Romans 10:17 says clearly: “Belief cometh of hearing, and hearing by the word of Christ.” Faith does not arise in a vacuum. It is not positive thinking or vague hope. Real faith comes from hearing God speak, whether through the living Word (Jesus), the written Word (Scripture), or a spoken word of conviction from the Holy Spirit.

    Watchman Nee emphasizes that prayer alone, apart from God’s word, is ineffective. He echoes James 4:2–3: “You have not because you ask not…you ask and do not receive because you ask amiss.” If we are praying without being anchored in what God has actually said, we’re swinging our sword in the dark.

    Instead, we are to ask God for a word, and from that word, faith will rise. And with that faith, the breakthrough will come.

    How to Ask God for a Word

    This practice can feel mysterious at first, but it becomes more natural the more we train our ears to hear. Here are some simple ways to begin:

    1. Pause and ask intentionally: When confronted with a problem—financial, relational, spiritual—stop and ask: “Lord, will You give me a word for this situation?”
    2. Open Scripture expectantly: God speaks primarily through His Word. Ask the Holy Spirit to highlight a verse, story, or promise that applies. This isn’t flipping through the Bible randomly, but meditating prayerfully with attention.
    3. Pay attention to repeated themes: Sometimes God confirms a word through repetition—a verse showing up in multiple places, a song lyric, a sermon, or something someone says to you out of the blue.
    4. Write it down: When you sense a verse or promise rise up in your spirit, write it down. Declare it. Stand on it. That is your sword.
    5. Use the word in prayer and action: Once you receive the word, pray it back to God. Declare it when doubt comes. Make decisions in light of it.

    Real Life Examples of This Practice

    A friend recently shared that he had been feeling overwhelmed by a health scare in the family. He had praised God and trusted His goodness—but he still felt anxious. So he quieted himself and asked, “Lord, give me a word.” Over the next few days, he kept encountering Psalm 91: “With long life I will satisfy him and show him my salvation.” That verse anchored his faith. He began declaring it daily. And sure enough, peace replaced panic. Over time, the situation, slowly but surely, resolved.

    Another friend was unsure whether to take a risky career step. Instead of relying on pros and cons, he asked God for a word. He kept returning to Proverbs 3:6: “In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” That word gave him courage to move forward in confidence—and that decision led to fruitfulness beyond what he imagined.

    These aren’t magic tricks or emotional coping mechanisms. They are the sword of the Spirit in action—the word of God, spoken into the battlefield of life.

    Taking the Sword into Your Battle

    Watchman Nee’s insight is both challenging and empowering: If we want to see breakthroughs, we must go beyond vague belief and ask God for a word. That word becomes our offensive weapon. It’s how Jesus fought in the wilderness—“It is written…”

    When the devil tempts us, when circumstances close in, when anxiety roars—what has God said? That is our sword.
    So the next time a problem confronts us, we shouldn\’t just praise the Lord. Nor should we only pray. Rather, we should do as Watchman Nee exhorts: Ask God for a word. Seek it. Wait for it. Stand on it. And then fight with it.

    Call to Action: Practice Asking God for a Word

    Are you facing a challenge right now—financial stress, uncertainty about the future, a health concern? Don’t just push through. Pause and ask God for a word.

    Open your Bible. Wait in prayer. Write down what you sense. Then hold fast to it.

    And if this post helped you, share it with someone who needs a breakthrough. Let us become people who don’t just pray, but pray with the Word of Christ in our mouths and hearts.

    About Raleigh Acupuncture

    At Raleigh Acupuncture Associates, we are deeply committed to providing the highest quality professional acupuncture while being rooted in strong Judeo-Christian values of love, faith, kindness, and truth. We guide our practice with compassionate care, where each patient is treated with respect and dignity, regardless of their background, faith, or beliefs. We welcome people from all walks of life and strive to create a warm, inclusive environment promoting healing and holistic wellness. Our dedication to delivering exceptional acupuncture is paired with a genuine love for helping others, making our clinic a place where faith and professional medical care come together for the well-being of every patient.

    Next Steps

    BOOK NOW to schedule an appointment online.

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    Focus Keyphrase: Ask God for a Word
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  • Re-Channel Physical Desire: A Christian Approach to Purity and Self-Control

    Re-Channel Physical Desire: A Christian Approach to Purity and Self-Control

    In the journey of faith, many Christians face the challenge of re-channeling physical desire toward purity, self-control, and the service of God. Physical desire is a natural part of who we are, yet it can become a source of struggle when it’s misdirected or misunderstood. As we seek to live in accordance with God\’s will, the question arises: how can we handle these desires in a way that honors Him? In this post, we’ll explore practical and biblical ways to re-channel physical desire into healthy outlets that build spiritual maturity and draw us closer to God.

    Acknowledge and Reframe Physical Desire

    To begin, it\’s important to acknowledge that physical desire itself is not inherently sinful. God created us with desires—physical included—as part of His divine plan. What matters is how we respond to those desires. When we talk about re-channeling physical desire, we\’re not suggesting the suppression of it, but rather guiding it towards a higher purpose. The goal is to transform those urges from something self-centered into an energy that fosters love, respect, and holiness.

    Rather than demonizing physical desire, we must see it as part of God’s design. When we begin to re-channel physical desire, we move from seeing it as a source of shame or frustration to recognizing it as an opportunity for self-discipline and alignment with God’s will.

    Developing Self-Control Through the Holy Spirit

    One of the keys to managing physical desire in a Christ-centered way is self-control. Galatians 5:22-23 lists self-control as a fruit of the Spirit, meaning it’s not just something we develop through willpower alone—it’s a characteristic cultivated through our relationship with God. When we re-channel physical desire, we rely on the Holy Spirit’s strength to help us stay grounded in purity and make choices that reflect God’s love.

    When temptation arises, remember that self-control doesn’t just happen overnight. It’s about daily surrender to God’s will. Practicing spiritual disciplines such as prayer, Scripture reading, and worship allows the Holy Spirit to transform our desires and empower us to resist temptation. Through this, we’re better equipped to direct our energies towards things that honor God and build us up spiritually.

    Another powerful way to re-channel physical desire is by focusing on service and purpose. When we feel tempted or distracted, one of the most effective responses is to redirect our attention away from ourselves and onto others. Acts of service, whether through ministry, volunteer work, or simply being present for those in need, are ways to pour out the energy that might otherwise be spent on temptation.

    Being Married and Being Single

    In marriage, physical desire is a natural, God-ordained expression of love, intimacy, and unity between husband and wife. It is appropriate and good as long as it is directed toward your spouse and expressed in a way that honors them, strengthens the relationship, and deepens the bond between you. Scripture encourages mutual fulfillment and care for one another’s needs, and physical intimacy is a vital part of that. In this way, physical desire in marriage is re-channelled toward serving and loving your spouse—through mutual respect, selflessness, and a shared commitment to one another.

    For singles, the same principle applies but in a non-physical way. Desire, instead of being focused on self-gratification, can be expressed through healthy, Christ-centered relationships — building up others spiritually, emotionally, and through acts of service that honor God. When we learn to re-channel physical desire toward others in this way, we shift our focus from personal fulfillment to a desire to love and honor others, which aligns us more closely with God’s calling.

    Purity of Heart: Renewing the Mind and Thoughts

    A crucial part of re-channeling physical desire involves renewing the mind. The apostle Paul urges us in Romans 12:2 to “be transformed by the renewing of your mind”. Purity begins not just with external actions but with the transformation of how we think and feel about desire. We must learn to guard our thoughts, recognizing that lust starts in the mind before it manifests in actions.

    When impure thoughts arise, it\’s essential to take immediate action: pray, meditate on Scripture, or consciously redirect your thoughts. The more we practice this, the easier it becomes to re-channel physical desire into something positive — whether it’s cultivating pure relationships, focusing on self-control, or spending time in worship.

    Seeking Accountability and Community

    Lastly, a critical step in re-channeling physical desire is accountability. We were never meant to fight temptations alone. Having trusted brothers or sisters in Christ who can walk alongside us, pray for us, and challenge us when we struggle can make all the difference. Proverbs 27:17 says, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” Accountability helps us stay focused on the goal of purity and prevents us from falling into isolation, which can make temptation more difficult to resist.

    When we share our struggles with trusted friends, we can receive encouragement and wisdom that helps us grow spiritually and emotionally. This community is essential for anyone seeking to re-channel physical desire in a way that aligns with God’s will.

    Conclusion: A Lifelong Process of Growth and Transformation

    Re-channeling physical desire toward purity, self-control, and service to God is not a quick fix, but a lifelong process of growth and transformation. It involves acknowledging that desire itself is not the issue, but how we choose to handle it. By re-channeling physical desire through spiritual practices, self-control, and a focus on serving others, we not only honor God but also experience a deeper and more fulfilling relationship with Him.

    Remember, you don’t have to do this alone. God has provided the Holy Spirit to guide you, and a supportive community to walk with you. Keep relying on Him, renewing your mind, and taking practical steps toward living a life that reflects His holiness. As you do, you’ll find that physical desire becomes a source of strength and service, rather than a source of struggle.

    About Raleigh Acupuncture

    At Raleigh Acupuncture Associates, we are deeply committed to providing the highest quality professional acupuncture while being rooted in strong Judeo-Christian values of love, faith, kindness, and truth. We guide our practice with compassionate care, where each patient is treated with respect and dignity, regardless of their background, faith, or beliefs. We welcome people from all walks of life and strive to create a warm, inclusive environment promoting healing and holistic wellness. Our dedication to delivering exceptional acupuncture is paired with a genuine love for helping others, making our clinic a place where faith and professional medical care come together for the well-being of every patient.

    Next Steps

    BOOK NOW to schedule an appointment online.

    Meet Our Practitioners (Video).

    Learn about all the conditions we treat.

    Focus Keyphrase: Re-Channel Physical Desire
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  • Victory Comes by Believing God’s Word

    Victory Comes by Believing God’s Word

    Today\’s blog post presents a brilliant antidote for overcoming sins that seem impossible to put behind us. We\’ll start with scripture and commentary by Watchman Nee and follow up with a more detailed analysis. Today\’s message is entitled: \”Victory Comes by Believing God\’s Word.\”

    For sin shall not have dominion over you: for ye are not under law, but under grace. Romans 6.14.

    Watchman Nee\’s Commentary on Victory

    In America there was once a Christian who had been able to overcome many things in his life except for four or five sins which he committed repeatedly. He confessed that his history was a story of continual confession. One day he read Romans 6.14. He accordingly prayed as follows: “Your word says sin shall not have dominion over me, but my situation attests that sin has had dominion over me. Nevertheless, today I believe in Your word, therefore I declare I have already overcome my sin.” Later on, when one of the same temptations came his way, he would still fall if he looked at himself; but whenever he trusted in the word of God, telling God that His word could not be untrue, he experienced victory. And thus he lived a victorious life. Here is the most important thing for us to lay hold of: God’s word. If you look at yourself, you shall be as corrupted as you were before. If you look at your environment, it will be as difficult as it has always been. But if you believe in God’s word, you are able to overcome.

    When Sin Persists, Victory Comes by Believing God’s Word

    Many believers find themselves in the same cycle: failure, confession, resolve, and then failure again. The sins may vary, but the frustration is the same. You want to change. You pray for strength. Yet, the old habits cling like shadows. The key, as Watchman Nee reminds us in his reflection on Romans 6:14, is not trying harder but trusting deeper. Victory comes by believing God’s Word. Not by sheer effort, not by emotion, not even by clarity of thought—but by believing what God has declared to be true.

    Romans 6:14 doesn’t say, “Try not to let sin have dominion over you.” It says, “Sin shall not have dominion over you.” That is a promise rooted not in your ability, but in your position—not under law, but under grace.

    Grace-Filled Victory: Believe, Not Just Strive

    The man in Watchman Nee’s story could overcome many sins, but several stubborn ones remained. His life, by his own confession, was a cycle of stumbling and sorrow. Yet everything changed when he read Romans 6:14 and dared to believe it. He didn’t feel different. His temptations didn’t vanish. But he chose to declare, “I have already overcome my sin,” because God’s Word had said it.

    The next time temptation struck, he fell again—*when he looked at himself.* But when he fixed his eyes on what God had said, he found real, practical victory. That’s the shift: not in circumstance, not in emotion, but in the anchor of faith. Victory comes by believing God’s Word.

    Don’t Look Inward—Look at the Word for Victory

    Watchman Nee’s insight is simple, yet it cuts through the confusion many of us feel: If you look at yourself, you’ll see weakness. If you look at your environment, you’ll see difficulty. But if you look at God’s Word, you’ll find power. This is more than positive thinking or affirmation. It’s anchoring your trust in something that cannot lie.

    Your environment may scream failure. Your heart may whisper discouragement. But God’s Word declares: “Sin shall not have dominion over you.” And victory comes by believing God’s Word. Even if your feelings haven’t caught up, even if your behavior still stumbles, faith says, “God’s truth is greater than my experience.”

    Sustaining Freedom: Let God’s Word Have the Last Word

    A victorious life is not lived by denying temptation, but by standing on a higher truth. That truth is this: grace changes everything. You’re not under the old system where your success determines your standing. You’re under grace—God’s unchanging commitment to empower you, forgive you, and transform you.

    That Christian in Nee’s story didn’t overcome because he suddenly became strong. He overcame because he believed God was. That’s the difference between striving and standing. Between performance and promise. And that’s where real freedom is found.

    Victory comes by believing God’s Word. Let that be the declaration in your heart, your prayer in weakness, and the banner over every battle.

    Final Thought on Victory:

    God’s promises don’t depend on your performance, but on His faithfulness. And when God says, “Sin shall not have dominion over you,” He means it. Stand in that promise—again and again—because victory comes by believing God’s Word.

    About Raleigh Acupuncture

    At Raleigh Acupuncture Associates, we are deeply committed to providing the highest quality professional acupuncture while being rooted in strong Judeo-Christian values of love, faith, kindness, and truth. We guide our practice with compassionate care, where each patient is treated with respect and dignity, regardless of their background, faith, or beliefs. We welcome people from all walks of life and strive to create a warm, inclusive environment promoting healing and holistic wellness. Our dedication to delivering exceptional acupuncture is paired with a genuine love for helping others, making our clinic a place where faith and professional medical care come together for the well-being of every patient.

    Next Steps

    BOOK NOW to schedule an appointment online.

    Meet Our Practitioners (Video).

    Learn about all the conditions we treat.

    Focus Keyphrase: Victory Comes by Believing God’s Word
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  • Sacrificial Love For Others: How Far Would You Go?

    Sacrificial Love For Others: How Far Would You Go?

    The Challenge of Sacrificial Love for Others

    When I read Paul’s words in Romans 9:3—“For I could wish that I myself were accursed and cut off from Christ for the sake of my brothers…”—I stop cold. It’s one of the most astonishing statements in the New Testament. Paul, the apostle who cherished Christ above all, was willing to be eternally cut off if it meant his fellow Jews could be saved. And I ask myself: Could I ever love like that? Am I truly prepared for that kind of sacrificial love for others?

    The honest answer? I’m not sure I am.

    Not a Doctrine—A Window into Paul’s Heart

    To be clear, Paul isn’t proposing a theological loophole where one soul can trade places with another. The Greek verb used—ēuchomēn—implies a deep yearning, not an actual possibility. Paul knows, like we all should, that no one can save another by forfeiting their own salvation. God makes it clear in Ezekiel 18:20 that each soul is responsible for its own condition before Him.

    But Paul’s longing is still radical. He mirrors Moses’ plea in Exodus 32:32:

    “But now, if you will forgive their sin, forgive it. But if not, blot me out of the book you have written.”

    These are not prescriptions. They are laments—powerful, painful expressions of sacrificial love for others. They show us what the heart of Christ looks like in human form.

    The Heart Behind the Words

    Rather than dismiss this as rhetorical flair, we’re meant to be struck by the intensity of Paul’s compassion. His sorrow for the lost is not casual—it’s gut-wrenching. In Romans 10:1, he says,

    “Brothers, my heart’s desire and prayer to God for them is that they may be saved.”

    He prays for them, weeps for them, aches for them. And here’s where it gets personal. I asked myself: Do I ache like that for the people around me who don’t know Christ? Have I become so comfortable in my own salvation that I’ve stopped noticing those who are still lost?

    When Salvation Becomes Routine

    The reality is, I can be quick to thank God for saving me, but slow to pray for others to be saved. I tell myself I don’t want to “push religion” or “make people uncomfortable,” but sometimes that’s just fear in disguise. What I’m really doing is playing it safe.

    Paul didn’t play it safe. His love went far beyond polite evangelism. His was a sacrificial love for others that cost him dearly—beatings, imprisonment, shipwrecks, sleepless nights, and unrelenting grief for his people.

    Today, we may not face physical persecution, but there are still costs: time, vulnerability, reputation. Would I give up a weekend to build trust with someone who doubts? Would I risk an awkward moment to share my faith with a coworker? Would I pray regularly for the salvation of someone I find difficult to love?

    Real World Echoes

    This kind of sacrificial love isn’t just found in scripture. Corrie ten Boom risked everything to hide Jews from the Nazis. She did it not for fame or obligation, but because of Christ’s love in her. Jim Elliot and his missionary friends gave their lives to bring the gospel to an unreached tribe in Ecuador. They saw beyond their own safety and comfort to the eternal reality of others.

    And yet, I hesitate to even risk being misunderstood.

    Not a Guilt Trip—A Growth Opportunity

    It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by these examples. But this isn’t about guilt—it’s about growth. We’re not called to mimic Paul’s precise words, but we are called to reflect the same heart. Jesus said,

    “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one\’s life for one\’s friends” (John 15:13).

    That doesn’t always mean dying for someone. Sometimes it means dying to our comfort zones, our routines, and our pride. That’s where sacrificial love for others begins.

    Action Starts With Prayer

    So what can we do?

    Start by praying for someone you know who is far from Christ. Not once, but daily. Let your heart soften as Paul’s did.

    * Look for opportunities to serve them practically—acts of love build bridges for truth.

    * Speak honestly about your faith when the door opens. Don’t force it, but don’t hide it either.

    * Ask God to give you compassion—the kind that moves you beyond comfort.

    The goal is not to offer our salvation in trade, but to offer our lives in service.

    Final Thoughts

    Paul’s statement in Romans 9:3 isn’t something we’re commanded to imitate literally. But it’s something we’re meant to marvel at and learn from. It’s a glimpse into what sacrificial love for others looks like at full strength. And while we may never love as Paul loved, we can ask God to keep expanding our hearts in that direction.

    Maybe you’re not ready to say, “I would give up everything,” but are you willing to say, “I’ll give something?” That’s where transformation begins.

    About Raleigh Acupuncture

    At Raleigh Acupuncture Associates, we are deeply committed to providing the highest quality professional acupuncture while being rooted in strong Judeo-Christian values of love, faith, kindness, and truth. We guide our practice with compassionate care, where each patient is treated with respect and dignity, regardless of their background, faith, or beliefs. We welcome people from all walks of life and strive to create a warm, inclusive environment promoting healing and holistic wellness. Our dedication to delivering exceptional acupuncture is paired with a genuine love for helping others, making our clinic a place where faith and professional medical care come together for the well-being of every patient.

    Next Steps

    BOOK NOW to schedule an appointment online.

    Meet Our Practitioners (Video).

    Learn about all the conditions we treat.

    Focus Keyphrase: sacrificial love for others
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  • Are We Truly “Always Ready”? Rethinking Eternal Security

    Are We Truly “Always Ready”? Rethinking Eternal Security

    What Does It Mean to Be Ready?

    In Matthew 25:10,13 we read, “And they that were ready went in with him to the marriage feast… Watch therefore, for ye know not the day nor the hour.” This powerful parable of the ten virgins has stirred debate for centuries, especially in light of the doctrine commonly referred to as “once saved, always saved.” But does Jesus\’ teaching here—and the sobering commentary from Watchman Nee—support the idea of automatic eternal security? Or does it call for a deeper, ongoing commitment to being always ready?

    Watchman Nee Commentary

    Watchman Nee writes:

    To be “ready” means that there is no unfinished business, and one is therefore ready to be reckoned with daily. To “watch” means to so live as to be always ready for the coming of the Lord. We believers should daily be prepared for reckoning. The Lord may come at any time. The five foolish virgins were ready and watching at the beginning, but alas, they did not continue on.

    To be ready and watchful and waiting, we need the fullness of the Holy Spirit. It will not do if we depend on ourselves, for very soon we will be weakened and become foolish. But if we are filled with the Holy Spirit, we will spontaneously bear fruit to the glory of God. He who is truly watchful often feels he is not yet entirely ready. He does not trust in his own self. This is true humility.

    This insight raises a crucial question for all of us: Is it enough to have started well, or must we continually remain among the always ready believers?

    Watchfulness Is a Lifestyle, Not a Moment

    In a culture that often seeks quick assurances and tidy theology, “once saved, always saved” has provided many with a comforting sense of security. But the parable of the virgins doesn’t end with all ten entering the feast. Half are left outside—shut out—not because they never knew the bridegroom, but because they ceased to be ready.

    Watchman Nee warns that “very soon we will be weakened and become foolish” if we rely on ourselves and not on the Spirit. The implication is that salvation is not a one-time prayer but a journey of continued surrender and dependence. Being among the always ready believers means cultivating a life that remains spiritually alert, not just momentarily aflame.

    Real World Wake-Up Calls

    Consider the story of someone who grew up in church, confessed Christ, served faithfully in youth group, and even led others to the Lord. But somewhere along the way, the fire dimmed. Life got busy. Prayer became rare. Compromise crept in. Years later, though still identifying as a Christian, their life bears little resemblance to a watchful, Spirit-filled disciple.

    Contrast that with a believer who daily seeks the Holy Spirit, lives in humble repentance, and holds their own readiness with godly fear. This person isn’t “perfect,” but their posture is prepared. They are walking among the always ready believers—not because of their strength, but because they stay surrendered.

    The Role of the Holy Spirit in Readiness

    Watchman Nee emphasizes that “to be ready and watchful and waiting, we need the fullness of the Holy Spirit.” This readiness isn’t something we manufacture through discipline or religious effort alone. It is a product of our ongoing relationship with God—of being filled daily, moment by moment, with the power that enables watchfulness.

    Those who are truly watchful, Nee says, “often feel they are not yet entirely ready.” That kind of humility keeps us pressing in, not coasting on past decisions. It recognizes that to be among the always ready believers is not to assume arrival, but to live with holy anticipation.

    So… Is \”Once Saved, Always Saved\” Biblical?

    Here’s the heart of the issue: if salvation were a one-time transaction requiring no ongoing response, why would Jesus tell a parable warning that those who stop being watchful could be shut out? Why would He say “Watch therefore,” if watching wasn’t essential?

    Watchman Nee’s interpretation reinforces this warning: readiness is not a static state; it’s a posture we must maintain. The foolish virgins were ready once—but they did not finish ready. This deeply challenges the idea that initial belief guarantees final salvation without perseverance.

    A Call to the Church—and to You

    The world needs more always ready believers—people who are not asleep spiritually, who are bearing fruit, living in the Spirit, and eagerly awaiting the return of Christ. This doesn’t mean living in fear, but in focus. It means asking not, “Did I once receive Christ?” but, “Am I walking with Him now?”

    Are we ready to be reckoned with daily? Are we watching, filled with the Spirit, and producing fruit for the Kingdom? Or are we resting on a prayer from the past, while drifting in the present?

    Call to Action: Stay Watchful, Stay Filled

    If this blog has stirred something in you—don’t ignore it. Return to the Scriptures. Seek the Holy Spirit. Examine your walk. Ask yourself: Am I among the always ready believers?

    Share this post with your small group or church. Talk about what readiness really looks like. Most of all, invite the Lord to search your heart. There is no greater preparation for His coming than a life surrendered fully, daily, and joyfully to His Spirit.

    About Raleigh Acupuncture

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  • Declare Jesus Is Lord

    Declare Jesus Is Lord

    The Power of a Simple Declaration

    The Christian life is not just about knowing facts or practicing good behavior. It’s about a dynamic relationship with God. At the center of this relationship is a simple but powerful confession: “Jesus is Lord.” This phrase isn’t just a theological label or a church slogan—it’s a bold and spiritual declaration that pushes back the darkness. In moments of confusion, fear, or spiritual resistance, one of the most effective things you can do is declare Jesus is Lord.

    In fact, the great evangelist Watchman Nee reminds us that this very declaration delights the heart of God and breaks the grip of the enemy. When everything feels chaotic and prayer feels impossible, your voice still matters. Your faith still matters. And your words—especially these three—carry eternal weight.

    Watchman Nee on “Jesus Is Lord”

    He begins his devotional by quoting 1 Corinthians 12:3:

    “No man can say, Jesus is Lord, but in the Holy Spirit.” – 1 Corinthians 12:3

    Then he states:

    “We know that there is one declaration God loves to hear from us, which is, that we say to Him, ‘You Are.’ And we say to the Lord, ‘You are Lord!’ This important word, that ‘Jesus is Lord!’, can be a most powerful declaration. Sometimes when things are in disarray and Satan mocks you by saying that you are now helpless, all you need do—even if you cannot pray at such a time—is simply to declare. You proclaim aloud: ‘Jesus is Lord!’ And you shall instantly see that entangled things are nothing and that Satan’s mocking is nothing. When you are being severely tried, you should rise up and speak this word. Whether it is in your own room or in a prayer meeting, you should say, ‘Jesus is Lord!’—by which you are telling Him: ‘You Are!’ The Lord loves to hear such a declaration, and we shall be strengthened inwardly as a result.”

    These words, according to Nee, are more than a theological affirmation—they are an act of spiritual warfare, a prayer of surrender, and a shout of victory all rolled into one.

    Why This Declaration Matters

    When Paul wrote that “no one can say ‘Jesus is Lord’ except by the Holy Spirit,” he wasn’t referring to the ability to vocalize the phrase. Anyone can say words. But to truly mean them—to align your heart with heaven and boldly confess Christ as your King—is a Spirit-enabled act of faith.

    Declaring Jesus is Lord is:

    • A reminder to yourself that God reigns even when life feels out of control.
    • Rebuke to the enemy, who wants to convince you that you\’re powerless.
    • A cry of surrender that invites God’s presence and power into your circumstance.

    This is not magical thinking. It’s spiritual truth in action.

    Real-World Moments to Declare Jesus Is Lord

    Consider the times when life overwhelms you—when you feel choked by anxiety, weighed down by grief, or caught in a whirlwind of decisions. These are the very moments when declaring Jesus is Lord can anchor your soul.

    Example 1:

    A woman recently lost her job unexpectedly. Bills were stacking up, and she felt like she was drowning. But instead of spiraling into despair, she stood in her living room and shouted, “Jesus is Lord!” Tears flowed, but her spirit lifted. That night, she slept in peace for the first time in weeks.

    Example 2:

    A man battling depression found that when he couldn’t pray, he could still whisper one thing: “Jesus is Lord.” At first, it felt small. But day after day, that whisper became louder, firmer, more confident. His heart began to heal—not because of a formula, but because God met him in that declaration.

    Declare Jesus Is Lord in the Small Moments Too

    Sometimes we think declarations like this are only for emergencies, but they’re just as meaningful in the mundane. You can declare Jesus is Lord:

    • Before you start your workday
    • When you drop your child off at school
    • In the car before a difficult conversation
    • After reading the news and feeling overwhelmed
    • When you\’re folding laundry or walking the dog

    Each time you do, you’re not just affirming a fact—you’re inviting God’s sovereignty into your moment, your mood, your mind.

    The Lord Loves to Hear From Us

    There’s something beautiful and intimate about Watchman Nee’s insight that God loves to hear us say, “You are.” When we say, “Jesus is Lord,” we’re not only resisting the enemy—we’re giving pleasure to the heart of our Creator.

    Imagine that. In a world full of noise, doubt, and distraction, your voice lifted in faith cuts through the chaos. It blesses the Lord. It declares your allegiance. It brings heaven near. That’s why it’s not just a statement—it’s worship.

    Strength for the Weary

    Nee also highlights how this declaration strengthens us. When you feel too exhausted to read Scripture, when your soul is dry and you’re unsure what to pray, this phrase becomes a lifeline.

    Jesus is Lord reminds us that:

    • We are not alone.
    • The battle belongs to Him.
    • Our strength comes from surrender.

    It’s not about willpower. It’s about realigning our hearts to the One who never changes, never fails, and never leaves.

    Call to Action: Make It Your Confession

    Have you experienced a moment when simply saying “Jesus is Lord” shifted your mindset or your situation? Or maybe you’re in a place where those words feel hard to say right now. That’s okay. You’re not alone.

    Here’s a challenge:

    This week, find three moments—big or small—when you intentionally pause and declare Jesus is Lord. Say it out loud. Say it in a whisper. Say it in your heart. And then watch what God does.

    We’d love to hear your story. Have you ever been strengthened by this declaration? How has saying “Jesus is Lord” helped you through a difficult time?

    Share in the comments below, and let’s encourage one another in faith. Together, let’s keep declaring the truth that changes everything.

    About Raleigh Acupuncture

    At Raleigh Acupuncture Associates, we are deeply committed to providing the highest quality professional acupuncture while being rooted in strong Judeo-Christian values of love, faith, kindness, and truth. We guide our practice with compassionate care, where each patient is treated with respect and dignity, regardless of their background, faith, or beliefs. We welcome people from all walks of life and strive to create a warm, inclusive environment promoting healing and holistic wellness. Our dedication to delivering exceptional acupuncture is paired with a genuine love for helping others, making our clinic a place where faith and professional medical care come together for the well-being of every patient.

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  • Planting Seeds of Faith Among Non-Believers

    Planting Seeds of Faith Among Non-Believers

    The Apostle Paul planting seeds of faith among non-believers in Greece.

    I often find myself reflecting on the different journeys people take when it comes to belief. Many of my friends and family don’t share my conviction that Jesus is the Messiah or even that the God of the Bible is real. I can understand that, because for the first fifty years of my life I felt the same way. Yet now, having experienced the hope and transformation that faith in Christ brings, I feel a deep desire to quietly plant seeds of faith—small glimpses of the truth that has changed me—in the lives of those I love. These are good and generous people, raising families, working hard, and living with kindness. I see their goodness as a blessing, and I also hope they might one day know the deeper source of life and truth that flows from God Himself.

    The Role of the Believer: Faithful Witnessing

    The apostle Paul shared a similar burden when he wrote in Romans 9:2-3: \”I have great sorrow and unceasing anguish in my heart. For I could wish that I myself were cursed and cut off from Christ for the sake of my people, those of my own race.\” Paul\’s love for his fellow Israelites didn’t stop at sorrow; it moved him to action through prayer, preaching, and patient endurance. Like Paul, believers today have a role—not to force faith, but to be a faithful witness, planting seeds of faith through compassion, relationship, and Scripture.

    One of the most impactful things we can do is pray. We can ask the Lord to soften the hearts of those around us, to open spiritual eyes, and to give us opportunities to share—not through judgment or confrontation, but through connection. A quiet word at the right moment, a verse gently spoken, or an act of kindness can speak volumes.

    Sharing the God of the Bible

    A major gap today lies in how people perceive God. If they recognize a higher power at all, it is limited to a general idea, a cultural heritage, or a distant force (like \’The Force\’ as described in the movie Star Wars!) But the God of the Bible is anything but abstract. He is the One who revealed Himself to Moses in the burning bush (Exodus 3:14), saying, \”I AM WHO I AM.\” He is the One who makes and keeps covenants, who thunders from Sinai and whispers to Elijah. He is personal, powerful, and present.

    Psalm 111:10 declares, \”The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; all who follow his precepts have good understanding.\” To fear the Lord is not to tremble with dread but to stand in reverent awe of His holiness, His justice, and His mercy. Sharing this understanding of God—through our lives, words, and prayers—is a way to plant seeds of faith in a culture that often prefers spiritual generalities over biblical specificity.

    Why Bother Trying to Fix What\’s Not Broken?

    I often ask myself, If my secular friends and family seem to be thriving already, why would I want to lead them toward God? On the surface, their lives look full—successful careers, loving families, and meaningful routines. Yet I’ve come to see that looks can be deceiving. Beneath the surface, there can still be quiet fears, unspoken anxieties, or a lingering sense that something vital is missing. When life revolves only around ourselves, without the grounding presence of God, even our best pursuits can leave us unsatisfied. That’s why I feel called, not to preach or push, but to gently plant seeds of faith—small reminders of God’s love—so they might discover for themselves the deeper hope He offers.

    Secondly, the Bible is clear. The only way to obtain eternal life is through putting our faith in the Son of God. Now while eternity may not seem like a pressing issue when we\’re busy with our lives, the fact is that eternity is everything. Life on earth comes and goes quickly. The experiences we have now are precious, for sure, but they can\’t compare to what God has planned for us in His heavenly house. As David so eloquently reflected in Psalm 23:6, \”Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever.\”

    Jesus: The Fulfillment of the Promise

    Many secular Americans reject the idea that Jesus is the Messiah. In our modern culture, belief demands proof. And we cannot prove that Jesus performed miracles and rose from the dead. We did not see it. We rely on biblical accounts from others who were there. Consider Isaiah 53, where the prophet describes the suffering servant: \”He was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities… and by his wounds we are healed\” (Isaiah 53:5). Most people are unfamiliar with this passage, yet it speaks clearly of the atoning sacrifice of Jesus.

    Jeremiah 31:31 also lays the foundation for the new covenant: \”The days are coming,\” declares the Lord, \”when I will make a new covenant with the people of Israel and with the people of Judah.\” This covenant, written on our hearts, was fulfilled through Jesus. He is not a break from Judaism but its fulfillment—the Messiah promised by the prophets.

    Zechariah 12:10 gives a haunting preview of this moment of recognition: \”They will look on me, the one they have pierced, and they will mourn for him as one mourns for an only child.\” There will come a time of revelation, but until then, our calling is to bear witness.

    Why Should We Believe the Bible?

    A skeptic will say, \’Yes, the Bible makes clear reference to a Messiah, and Jesus seems to fulfill all that was prophesied. But the Bible is just a fabrication of men\’s minds, not the word of God.\’ What is this conclusion based on? Their opinion? Their gut sense? What their teachers or parents told them? The Bible is the oldest, most recognized book in the history of civilization. Why is that? Why has it had so much influence in people\’s lives over the past three thousand years? And what have two billion Christians and Jews found worthy in its pages all this time? Superstitions are fickle – they come and go. What if the Bible actually speaks the truth?

    And if that\’s the case, then what are the implications if we choose to ignore its teachings? God says that if we believe in Him, He will bless our lives and give us eternal life. Yet, if we make other things more important than Him, our lives will be filled with hardship and we will cease to exist after our short stay on earth. The secular world \’thinks\’ the Bible is fabricated. What is their proof? How can they be so sure that God does not exist?

    Today Most People\’s Faith is in Science, Not God

    I find it amusing that my secular friends and family believe without doubt certain scientific theories that clearly lack definitive proof. Two such examples are the Big Bang and evolution. In their mind, the universe started with the Big Bang. Why? Because that\’s what our scientists tell us. Yet, where is the definitive proof? Show me a picture. There is not absolute proof that the universe started at the Big Bang in the sense of mathematical certainty. Rather, scientific evidence supports the Big Bang as the best current explanation for the origin of the observable universe. Five hundred years ago scientific evidence supported the notion that the earth was flat. So much for \’truth\’.

    The same holds for huge gaps in the theory of evolution. Even the most devoted fan of Darwin cannot explain how 90% of all complex life evolved within a short historical span called the Cambrian Explosion. This was an evolutionary period that occurred approximately 540 million years ago. During this time, life on Earth underwent an unprecedented burst of diversification, with most major animal groups appearing in a relatively short geological span of about 20–25 million years. This discovery contradicts Darwin\’s key proposition that life evolved through small, incremental changes over long periods. Evolution is not a fact, it\’s our current scientific theory of how life came about. Yet we teach it in school to our children as absolute truth and treat it as gospel.

    Who Are We Worshiping?

    People today have put their faith in unproven scientific theories. In a sense, they are bowing down and worshiping these beliefs, holding them as ultimate truth. We believers, on the other hand, put our faith in God as described in the Bible. God warned about worshiping idols and false gods. The first commandment in Deuteronomy 5:7-10 clearly states: “You shall have no other gods before me. You shall not make for yourself a carved image, or any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is on the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth. You shall not bow down to them or serve them; for I the Lord your God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, but showing steadfast love to thousands of those who love me and keep my commandments.\”

    There Are Consequences for our Choices and Actions

    Scripture is clear that our choices have real consequences—especially when it comes to who or what we worship. From the earliest pages of the Bible, God warns His people that turning to false gods leads to judgment and loss. Here are some passages that powerfully affirm this truth:

    Deuteronomy 11:26–28

    “See, I am setting before you today a blessing and a curse—the blessing if you obey the commands of the Lord your God that I am giving you today; the curse if you disobey the commands of the Lord your God and turn from the way that I command you today by following other gods, which you have not known.”

    This is one of the clearest statements that God gives people a choice—with real consequences. Faithfulness brings blessing. Idolatry brings a curse.

    Jeremiah 2:13

    “My people have committed two sins: They have forsaken me, the spring of living water, and have dug their own cisterns, broken cisterns that cannot hold water.”

    Here, God laments that His people turned from Him to things that cannot satisfy. This spiritual betrayal leads to judgment and exile. Choosing false gods leads to brokenness.

    Faith in God is not a Panacea

    Our lives as believers are far from perfect. We struggle with fears and anxieties like everyone else. But there is a difference. In the midst of challenges, we know that we are not alone, that there is a God looking out for us. He may not deliver us the way we want, or in the timing we choose, but He will always do what is best for us. This faith serves as a hedge of protection for our hearts and minds as we live day-to-day.

    Last year, a close friend succumbed to cancer. She was only forty-five years old. It was painful process. But during the entire ordeal, during her fight to survive, she knew that God was ultimately in charge and had her best interest in mind. Her unwavering belief gave her comfort, even though her situation was so incredibly difficult. Her faith was an inspiration to me.

    I have another friend who also went through cancer. Thankfully, she survived and is now healthy again. During her treatment, I was shocked at how calm she was. Her siblings chastised her, telling her that she needed to be more concerned about her situation. She laughed and said, \”Why? God\’s got this!\” Most believers don\’t have the kind of faith that my friend has. But it\’s something we can aspire to. She is certainly another roll model for me.

    Our Part and God’s Power

    Ultimately, it is not our persuasive arguments or perfect timing that changes hearts. 2 Corinthians 4:6 reminds us: \”For God, who said, ‘Let light shine out of darkness,’ made his light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of God\’s glory displayed in the face of Christ.\” Our part is obedience. His part is transformation.

    Even when it feels impossible—when their resistance is strong or indifference is deep—keep planting seeds of faith. Keep praying. Keep loving. Keep sharing truth gently, patiently, and without expectation. Trust the Gardener to bring the harvest.

    Call to Action: Join the Conversation

    If you’ve ever struggled with how to talk about your faith with non-believing friends and family, you’re not alone. Have you had opportunities to plant seeds of faith—even small ones? Or are you still praying for an open door? Share your experience in the comments below. Let’s encourage each other and trust that God is still writing stories of redemption—one seed at a time.

    About Raleigh Acupuncture

    At Raleigh Acupuncture Associates, we are deeply committed to providing the highest quality professional acupuncture while being rooted in strong Judeo-Christian values of love, faith, kindness, and truth. We guide our practice with compassionate care, where each patient is treated with respect and dignity, regardless of their background, faith, or beliefs. We welcome people from all walks of life and strive to create a warm, inclusive environment promoting healing and holistic wellness. Our dedication to delivering exceptional acupuncture is paired with a genuine love for helping others, making our clinic a place where faith and professional medical care come together for the well-being of every patient.

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  • Seeking the Reward from God

    Seeking the Reward from God

    In a world driven by likes, follows, and public affirmation, Jesus’ words in Matthew 6:5 strike with timeless clarity: \”When ye pray, ye shall not be as the hypocrites: for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men. … They have received their reward.\” The lesson is simple, yet profound. There is a clear distinction between seeking the reward from God versus from man. According to Jesus, we cannot pursue both. We must choose: will we live for human applause or for the approval of our heavenly Father?

    Outward acts—prayer, giving, serving—are easily corrupted when motivated by a desire for recognition and praise. The challenge before us today is whether our spiritual life is rooted in true devotion or in the approval of others.

    Watchman Nee\’s Commentary

    The great Chinese evangelist had this to say about Matthew 6:5:

    \”There are two different kinds of reward: that which comes from man, and that which comes from God. No one can have both rewards. If we wish to receive man’s reward now we will not be able to obtain God’s reward in the future. We cannot seek to enjoy great fame on earth and then have high position in the kingdom to come. If today’s zeal and alms are for the purpose of getting fame and praise, there will be nothing to gain in the future before God. For this reason we should refuse today’s reward.

    What, after all, can the praise of man add to us? If we have our eyes opened we will seek only the glory before God and the angels; the rest will not count at all.\”

    Attending Synagogue as a Child

    I distinctly remember attending synagogue as a child and witnessing how many of the \’religious\’ men used to pray. Services were conducted in Hebrew, even though none of us understood the language. These men seemed to look down on those of us who did not attend services as consistently as them. And when they prayed, it was loudly, demonstratively, and in my mind, calling attention to themselves.

    Instead of being welcoming to their brothers and sisters, they were aloof, with a holier-than-thou attitude. I remember feeling \’less than\’ in their presence. Their attitude said, \’We come to synagogue every morning to pray. You don\’t. We attend every Friday and Saturday service. You don\’t. We know the prayers by heart. You don\’t.\’ There was nothing inviting, welcoming, or encouraging about their attitude, these elders of the congregation.

    The Difference Between Rewards

    Jesus did not condemn public prayer in itself—He prayed publicly many times. Rather, He was warning against performative spirituality. Hypocrites, He says, “love to stand and pray… that they may be seen of men.” Their motivation isn’t connection with God, but validation from people. And sadly, Jesus tells us, “they have received their reward.” That’s all they get.

    But God offers a better way. When seeking the reward from God in humility, quietly and sincerely, we receive something far greater than the fleeting praise of people—His reward endures for eternity. The recognition of man is momentary and hollow. The recognition of God lasts forever and fills the soul.

    Glory Before God, Not Men

    The human heart craves recognition. Whether it’s our name on a plaque, our voice in a crowd, or a subtle pat on the back, we long to be noticed. Yet Nee\’s commentary wisely asks: “What, after all, can the praise of man add to us?”

    If our eyes are open to eternal things, we will seek glory before God and His angels. That audience matters most. One day, all human praise will fade, but the approval of God will remain. This is the essence of seeking the reward from God—a reward that affirms faithfulness, not fame.

    This doesn’t mean we must hide every good deed. But it does mean we must check our motives. Do we post our prayers and fasting to appear spiritual, or to encourage others? Are our acts of generosity truly selfless, or secretly self-promoting?

    When I Chose the Spotlight Over Service

    A few years ago, I was asked to help organize a community outreach event. It was a great opportunity to serve behind the scenes—calling vendors, coordinating logistics, and praying for the people we hoped to reach. But early on, I found myself more drawn to the parts of the event that got attention—speaking at the microphone, being seen as the “visionary,” or getting credit for how smoothly things ran.

    I didn’t start with that motive, but somewhere along the way, I began to measure my value by how many people noticed my contributions. When someone else was thanked publicly instead of me, I felt jealous. I had made the event more about me than the people we were serving—or the God we were honoring.

    Afterward, during a quiet prayer time, I felt convicted. I had received my reward already—in nods, applause, and recognition. But I had missed the greater reward: the joy of serving in hidden obedience. That moment reshaped how I approach service. Now, when I catch myself drifting toward the spotlight, I ask: Would I still do this if no one ever knew?

    Serving With an Eternal Perspective

    In comparison, consider my friend Linda, a volunteer who spent years quietly caring for elderly patients at a local nursing home. She never posted about it online. She never even mentioned it in small group. When asked why she kept it so private, she smiled and said, “Because I don’t want to steal God’s glory for something He gave me the strength to do.”

    One day, a family member of a patient discovered Linda’s years of selfless care and thanked her publicly at a church service. People were moved—but Linda gently turned the praise back to God. Her humility wasn’t forced; it was formed by her commitment to seeking the reward from God, not applause from people.

    Her quiet service may never trend, but heaven takes notice.

    Living for the Lasting Reward

    Jesus is urging us to live for something deeper, something lasting. He is calling us to trade temporary attention for eternal honor. If today’s giving, praying, or serving is only for visibility or reputation, it may bring applause now—but it leaves our hearts empty before the throne of God.

    This is why Jesus emphasizes secrecy in Matthew 6—not to stifle good works, but to preserve their purity. When our righteousness is done in secret, God rewards it openly. And unlike man\’s fickle, fading applause, seeking the reward from God yields benefits that are full and complete.

    Call to Action

    So where do you seek your reward? Is your spiritual life fueled by intimacy with God, or filtered through public display? Are you content to be unseen by man if it means being seen by your Father in heaven?

    Today, let\’s examine our motives. Let us ask God to reveal where we may be living for man\’s approval instead of His. And for practice, let\’s seek to do one good thing this week that no one else knows about—just us and God. Then, let\’s savor the quiet reward.

    Have you ever wrestled with the temptation to seek recognition for spiritual things? What helps you keep your motives pure? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.

    About Raleigh Acupuncture

    At Raleigh Acupuncture Associates, we are deeply committed to providing the highest quality professional acupuncture while being rooted in strong Judeo-Christian values of love, faith, kindness, and truth. We guide our practice with compassionate care, where each patient is treated with respect and dignity, regardless of their background, faith, or beliefs. We welcome people from all walks of life and strive to create a warm, inclusive environment promoting healing and holistic wellness. Our dedication to delivering exceptional acupuncture is paired with a genuine love for helping others, making our clinic a place where faith and professional medical care come together for the well-being of every patient.

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  • The Roman Road: A Timeless Guide to the Gospel

    The Roman Road: A Timeless Guide to the Gospel

    The Roman Road is a simple yet profound way of understanding the message of salvation laid out by the Apostle Paul in his Letter to the Romans. For decades, Christians have relied on these verses as a roadmap to explain the Gospel clearly to friends, family, and even strangers who are seeking answers. More than just a formula, The Roman Road provides a framework for grasping the human condition, God’s response in Christ, and the call to respond in faith. In an age of complex theology and cultural confusion, its clarity is refreshing and life-giving.

    The Problem of Sin

    The first step on The Roman Road is an honest diagnosis. Romans 3:23 declares,

    “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.”

    This verse makes no exceptions. Whether a person grew up in church, lives a morally “good” life, or has never heard of God, Paul insists that all of humanity shares the same broken condition: sin.

    In practical terms, this is easy to illustrate. Imagine someone who prides themselves on never lying, yet still struggles with anger, selfishness, or envy. Sin is not limited to big crimes but touches every aspect of human life. Just as a cracked foundation destabilizes an entire house, sin separates us from God, no matter how small or hidden it may seem. This sobering reality sets the stage for why salvation is desperately needed.

    A Closer Examination of Our Sin Nature

    It\’s sometimes difficult to admit that we sin, especially for those who pride ourselves on being \”good people\” who work hard to \”do the right thing\” and lead morally upright lives. However, Jesus taught that no amount of good intention can save us from sinning. Here are several everyday examples that show how sin is inescapable, no matter how hard we try to avoid it.

    Wealth as a Substitute for Worship

    It’s not wrong to earn or save money, but when career advancement, investments, or the security of a bank account begin to matter more than honoring God, wealth becomes an idol. Paul called greed “idolatry” (Colossians 3:5). Like a golden calf in modern form, money takes the throne in the heart, quietly shifting trust away from the Provider to the provision itself.

    Lust Without the Affair

    Jesus raised the bar in Matthew 5:28 when He said that looking with lust is already adultery in the heart. This shows sin is not limited to external behavior. Someone may never step outside their marriage physically, but if their eyes and imagination wander unchecked, the soul is already being corroded.

    Anger That Breeds Bitterness

    Ephesians 4:26 warns, “Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger.” Anger itself may arise quickly, but when it festers, it becomes bitterness that poisons relationships. A person may smile outwardly but carry resentment that fractures friendships, families, and churches. That is the slow wage sin pays.

    Envy in Everyday Life

    Sin often hides in comparison. A neighbor gets a new car, and suddenly the blessings you once thanked God for feel small. James 3:16 reminds us, “For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice.” Envy corrodes gratitude and pushes people to chase shadows instead of being content.

    Neglect of Prayer and Scripture

    Sometimes sin is not what we do but what we fail to do. When days pass without prayer or engagement with God’s Word, the soul drifts. Like a boat untied from the dock, the current pulls it further from shore without anyone noticing. Hebrews 2:1 warns, “We must pay much closer attention… lest we drift away from it.”

    Together, these examples make clear that sin is more than rule-breaking; it’s a heart condition that expresses itself in countless ordinary ways, often unnoticed until damage has been done.

    The Wages of Sin and the Gift of Life

    Now, moving on the the second stop on the Roman Road, Romans 6:23 continues the journey:

    “For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

    Here Paul draws a sharp contrast between what we earn and what God gives. Wages are earned; gifts are received. Left to ourselves, the natural result of sin is death—both physical and spiritual.

    Consider the real world. A person who spends years abusing alcohol may eventually destroy their health. Sin works in similar fashion—its “paycheck” is destruction. Yet Paul pairs this grim truth with incredible hope. Eternal life in Christ is not a wage, but a free gift. Imagine a judge not only forgiving your traffic ticket but also paying it himself. That is grace, and it changes everything. The Roman Road shines a spotlight on this breathtaking exchange.

    God’s Love in Action

    Next, Romans 5:8 declares,

    “but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”

    This verse grounds the Gospel in love, not fear. God did not wait for humanity to “clean up” before sending Jesus. He acted while we were still far from Him.

    In everyday life, unconditional love is rare. A parent who forgives a child after repeated mistakes offers a glimpse, but even that pales next to Christ’s sacrifice. One Christian business leader described sharing this verse with a coworker struggling with guilt. Rather than piling on condemnation, he pointed to the cross: “Even now, in your brokenness, God loves you.” That truth broke through in a way no lecture could. The Roman Road teaches us that evangelism is less about judgment and more about showing the incredible depth of God’s love.

    Confession, Belief, and Salvation

    Romans 10:9-10 explains the necessary response:

    “because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth one confesses and is saved.”

    Faith is not mere intellectual assent; it is heartfelt trust that Jesus is Lord and risen Savior.

    Picture a lifeguard calling to a drowning swimmer. The swimmer must trust and allow themselves to be rescued. Confessing Christ as Lord is more than words; it is a declaration of trust and surrender. A young college student once described how this passage gave him courage to share his faith at his dorm. “It wasn’t about winning arguments—it was about inviting people to confess with their mouths and believe with their hearts.” The Roman Road equips believers with a way to do just that.

    The Promise for All Who Call

    Finally, Romans 10:13 offers assurance:

    “For ‘everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.’”

    This verse expands the invitation to all people, regardless of past sins, cultural background, or personal doubts. God’s promise is universal.

    In practice, this truth changes how Christians share their faith. A volunteer at a homeless shelter once told a man burdened by regret, “This promise is for you too.” The man wept, realizing that salvation was not limited to the “church crowd.” The Roman Road democratizes grace: no one is excluded who calls on Christ.

    Walking It Out

    The Roman Road is not just for evangelists or pastors. It can be lived out in everyday conversations—with coworkers over coffee, with family around the dinner table, or with strangers who ask why you have hope. By learning these five verses, believers carry a simple but powerful tool that summarizes the message of the Bible.

    If you’ve never walked The Roman Road yourself, start today. Read these passages slowly. Reflect on your own sin, God’s gift, Christ’s love, the call to confess and believe, and the promise of salvation. Then, be bold: share it. Someone in your life may be waiting to hear the Good News, and you may be the one God uses to speak it.

    Call to Action

    **Learn The Roman Road by heart.
    **Carry these verses with you in your conversations.
    **Most importantly, live them out with humility, love, and courage.

    The journey begins in Romans, but its destination is eternal life with Christ.

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